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May. 14th, 2010 09:41 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
summer_sparrow*headdesk*
So, the boy will be playing Warhammer from 11-7ish tomorrow. While I am cleaning the house.
Speaking of cleaning, he hired a guy he knows to do yardwork tomorrow. While he is gone. And I am home alone. And said guy is bringing a friend to help him.
The thing is? I have REPEATEDLY said, show me how the thing works and I'll mow the lawn. But no, "we need to spend all our time working on the house until the party."
DOES ANYONE SEE ANYTHING WRONG WITH THIS SITUATUON.
Oh, and he trusts the guy and doesn't think I should be worried. Even though he's been in prison. And is bringing a friend we do not know at all.
Sure, honey. You go ahead and trust. My small, physically weak and very female self? Yeah, I'm having at least one friend over the whole day kthnx.
*headdesk*
ETA: He gets it, finally. The timing has been rearranged. Also, he went back out to get me food. All is forgiven. <3
So, the boy will be playing Warhammer from 11-7ish tomorrow. While I am cleaning the house.
Speaking of cleaning, he hired a guy he knows to do yardwork tomorrow. While he is gone. And I am home alone. And said guy is bringing a friend to help him.
The thing is? I have REPEATEDLY said, show me how the thing works and I'll mow the lawn. But no, "we need to spend all our time working on the house until the party."
DOES ANYONE SEE ANYTHING WRONG WITH THIS SITUATUON.
Oh, and he trusts the guy and doesn't think I should be worried. Even though he's been in prison. And is bringing a friend we do not know at all.
Sure, honey. You go ahead and trust. My small, physically weak and very female self? Yeah, I'm having at least one friend over the whole day kthnx.
*headdesk*
ETA: He gets it, finally. The timing has been rearranged. Also, he went back out to get me food. All is forgiven. <3
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Date: 2010-05-15 05:31 am (UTC)That is just SO BEYOND NOT OK, SERIOUSLY. WTH.
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Date: 2010-05-15 06:52 am (UTC)I KNOW RIGHT. WTF. I mean it's not like he's had to listen to me talk about fear and rape culture and stuff for a freaking WEEK now. Mrrrr. >:|
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Date: 2010-05-15 06:14 am (UTC)Someone needs a smack with a clue-by-four. Seriously.
Although, what was he in prison for? It could give you a better idea how worried you need to be.
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Date: 2010-05-15 06:49 am (UTC)I vaguely remember that he told me what Lyon was in for once, when he first mentioned the guy (they worked together at Walmart and he lives near Royce's mom), and my response was "meh, ok," so it can't have been anything really awful.
It's almost more the principle of the thing... he didn't tell me until tonight and he doesn't understand why it makes me uncomfortable. For someone who's been hearing me talk about rape culture all week, it's pretty wtf. : /
I can't even get a friend out until 1:30; I asked if he could have them show up after that time, and if he doesn't I'll push the issue... it's not so much I'm worried something's going to happen, as it makes me seriously uncomfortable and I would like that respected, damn it. le sigh. :(
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Date: 2010-05-15 05:13 pm (UTC)